A group for Girl Lovers
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A group for Girl Lovers
If there are groups like NAMBLA for Boy Lovers why isn't there a group for Girl Lovers?
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NAMBLA emerged out of the gay movement at a time where marrying teens was still somewhat permissible. There was no strong need for a GL organisation at the time, and in the early days even NAMBLA didn’t exist- pederasty was just a part of gay rights. Nowadays NAMBLA is dead- as are any other organizations that focused exclusively on BLs.
As for the future I don’t see any reason for BLs and GLs to work separately. Although our ideal relationships may function differently we face largely the same struggles. Unnecessarily dividing our activism is more likely to weaken us than to strengthen us. We’re better as a united front.
As for the future I don’t see any reason for BLs and GLs to work separately. Although our ideal relationships may function differently we face largely the same struggles. Unnecessarily dividing our activism is more likely to weaken us than to strengthen us. We’re better as a united front.
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I think because most people know heterosexual male hebephilia is normal (even if they outwardly act like it isn't), while heterosexual male pedophilia is actually quite rare. Too many people fall into the former and too few fall into the latter to have warranted any organization.
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Exclusive pedophilia is rare but non-exclusive pedophilia is actually very common.PorcelainLark wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:28 am I think because most people know heterosexual male hebephilia is normal (even if they outwardly act like it isn't), while heterosexual male pedophilia is actually quite rare. Too many people fall into the former and too few fall into the latter to have warranted any organization.
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The following are just thoughts, not based on any data.mrlolicon93 wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 2:20 am If there are groups like NAMBLA for Boy Lovers why isn't there a group for Girl Lovers?
More social stigma attached to loving girls than to loving boys. Mothers more protective of girls. Girls likely to reflect more negatively on past sexual experiences. Odds stacked against a favourable reception to public demonstrations of girl-love activism. Boy love has acceptance and pedigree historically; few girl love precedents historically.
Perhaps girl lovers witnessed the ridicule and bad press heaped upon NAMBLA over recent decades, and decided not to go down the same path.
Re joining forces, boy lovers and girl lovers tend to be mutually exclusive communities online, and are often disparaging in such places about one another.
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Source?mrlolicon93 wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:53 amExclusive pedophilia is rare but non-exclusive pedophilia is actually very common.PorcelainLark wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:28 am I think because most people know heterosexual male hebephilia is normal (even if they outwardly act like it isn't), while heterosexual male pedophilia is actually quite rare. Too many people fall into the former and too few fall into the latter to have warranted any organization.
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PorcelainLark wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 5:45 pmSource?mrlolicon93 wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:53 amExclusive pedophilia is rare but non-exclusive pedophilia is actually very common.PorcelainLark wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:28 am I think because most people know heterosexual male hebephilia is normal (even if they outwardly act like it isn't), while heterosexual male pedophilia is actually quite rare. Too many people fall into the former and too few fall into the latter to have warranted any organization.
Its kinda just common sense.
Plus most of the others i have met over the years are all non-exclusive like myself.
I have only met a small handful of exclusive pedophiles in my life.
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I would add that NAMBLA and gay rights organizations met in real life and had high public visibility back in the day – there was no internet to anonymise activists and dilute activism. Plus, there were no online on-topic resources such as now exist on the dark web, to assuage pent up paedophile angst.Strato wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 3:16 pmThe following are just thoughts, not based on any data.mrlolicon93 wrote: ↑Sun Aug 18, 2024 2:20 am If there are groups like NAMBLA for Boy Lovers why isn't there a group for Girl Lovers?
More social stigma attached to loving girls than to loving boys. Mothers more protective of girls. Girls likely to reflect more negatively on past sexual experiences. Odds stacked against a favourable reception to public demonstrations of girl-love activism. Boy love has acceptance and pedigree historically; few girl love precedents historically.
Perhaps girl lovers witnessed the ridicule and bad press heaped upon NAMBLA over recent decades, and decided not to go down the same path.
Re joining forces, boy lovers and girl lovers tend to be mutually exclusive communities online, and are often disparaging in such places about one another.
Just checked the activity stats for a boy love website, which are available for all to see on the banner page without logging on, in case anyone asks: total posts 162214, total topics 10190, total members 164302. That website has been going for under a year, yet it is clearly incredibly well patronized and vibrant. I am sure an equivalent girl love website attracts similar huge demand. I doubt even Mu would approach a fraction of that activity within a similar time frame.
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What clear net BL site has those kind of numbers? I'm not familiar with any.
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None that I am aware of ...Jim Burton wrote: ↑Mon Aug 19, 2024 10:22 am What clear net BL site has those kind of numbers? I'm not familiar with any.