Glad to be here and share my thoughts with logically sound like minded individuals. Brief background about me, I wrestled with my feelings I had for kids for 7 long years but I have now accepted it and happy about it. Anyway, I want to play devil’s advocated about the topic of “grooming”. I find it truly hilarious that a kid’s parents will have more empathy if two kids the same age engaged in sexually activity rather than an adult and a kid. Here’s what I know for a fact : girls and boys are very curious about sex at a very young age and because what society teaches young girls they tend to depend on the boy to make the first move when it comes to sex.
So let me get this straight, because we as adults know what sex is we can’t have it with a consenting child? Either way a male is usually making the first move for sex whether they are under age or adults. Here’s where grooming comes into play. We’re also looked at as wrong for introducing an action to a child that society will do subliminally and overtly through social media, ads, commercials and television.
These illogical antis think we’ll traumatize kids with sex. So I must ask, is the love we have for kids mainly sexually oriented to where they grow up and become whores or sluts or is our love so strong that they will grow up to be amazing successful adults. After giving that thought, I had to sit back and understand why my lust is so strong. Its because what we want to do isn’t normalized so we crave it even more. Then I must ask this as well, if normalized would we stay with the child as a partner even after they grow up? Honestly, I think if normalized I would. But how I feel in reality, I wouldn’t want to stay with her after she becomes an adult. My lust yearns for little girls and I wouldn’t be happy with her as an adult. Girls get their heart broken by boys at a young age (and vice versa) and they hold on to that forever. But I feel, actually I know a large % of us won’t break the girls/boys heart because we know what we want. Also, being raised by a single mother is what ultimately damages these children the most. Its not sex with an adult! So ultimately, we deserve every right to be pro-c! I would love to hear your thoughts on this.