Hello everybody,
My name is Dude, or at least that's what everybody calls me, so I figure why not use the moniker here... seems appropriate.
A little about me:
I'm not old (40's) but definitely not a spring chicken anymore. I'm a good guy, a family man, a spiritual man, and a mentor to the younger bucks when called upon. I'm a philosopher, deep thinker, I prefer pancakes over waffles, and I my IQ is roughly 154 -- so that means I can talk about almost anything and sound like a seasoned expert. hehehe
I've always been attracted to the younger girlies, since I was a kiddie myself. My first real crush was an 11yo neighbor girl. I was 9. And my tastes haven't changed much since. Though as an adult, I find women of all ages attractive, from the single digits into the 50's and even 60's in certain cases. Halle Berry is a perfect example of an older woman I find gorgeous, and there are plenty others. But there is something special about the 10-13 range that I find most appealing.
A few people in my life know my secret preferences and they are perfectly cool with it. They know what caliber of person I am and they know I would never hurt or abuse or anyone. There isn't a malicious bone in my body. I would cut off my hand before I would use it to hurt a child. Anyone who knows me will testify to that fact.
Why am I here? What do I hope to gain from this forum?
I've known of this place for some time. In the early 2000's I was a frequent poster on the girlchat board, annabelleigh. I got away from public discourse as life and pursuit of amenities became my focus. But now, having arrived in a place of success and leisure, I want to engage again with my.. fellow kin. And plus, I feel my experience may be a benefit to others, particularly the younger fellas who may be in a state of confusion and uncertainty regarding their attractions.
I've never had the inner conflicts that so many of "us" suffer from and I'm looking forward to - if I am able - to help those who may be enduring some type emotional bitterness or self-loathing hatred. I've become more spiritually aware as the years have gone by and that is the angle I approach most things. It's my hope that I will be able to provide insight and understanding regarding the dynamics of our clandestine brand of sexuality.
At any rate, I aim to be a benefit to this community.
Maybe some will find my perspectives useful.
Maybe some will think me an idiot.
Either way I truly look forward to having some good dialogue and conversation.
- The Dude
