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by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Dec 28, 2025 4:35 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Feelings on partners growing up
Replies: 9
Views: 475

Re: Feelings on partners growing up

I'm in my 40s and have good relationships with several past lgf's. We're connected on socials and sometimes meet up for nights out when they're visiting the area. They're good friends.

And when I was as young a 6 I had a physical relationship with a man. In my 20s I saw him again and smiled to him ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Dec 28, 2025 4:27 pm
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: My neutral stance
Replies: 17
Views: 1206

Re: My neutral stance

While I do respect your views and the views everyone here, I don't really share them.

While you have little doubt that AMSC is harmful, I don't have the same confidence since I don't believe the evidence supports it. Not least because I had sexual contact as a young person as early as 6 and only ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sat Dec 27, 2025 5:35 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: On the death penalty
Replies: 11
Views: 2792

Re: On the death penalty

I see no situation when the death penalty should apply. Mistakes are made all the time in the justice system and even if a mistake isn't made, an executed person is having their punishment cut short by an act of legal murder.
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sat Dec 27, 2025 5:33 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: As a MAP, would you help a stranger?
Replies: 13
Views: 629

Re: As a MAP, would you help a stranger?

I would help an adult, I'm not sure I'd help a child.

The reason is that I instinctively want to help others in need, that's why I volunteer and contribute to charities, it's because I want to help others however I can. But when it comes to children, anything I do to help would be twisted into ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Dec 23, 2025 2:03 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Merry Christmas
Replies: 7
Views: 416

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to all the great people here, each one an inspiration to me.

Every one here who is working to make a difference in the face of such hate and destruction, I here the music in my mind "We can be heroes, just for one day. Keep being heroes and may you each have a blessed Christmas.
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Dec 23, 2025 12:16 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: What's your view of evolutionary origins of MA?
Replies: 17
Views: 8361

Re: What's your view of evolutionary origins of MA?

Building on the above, are maps a result of early bonding to the healthiest and best females within a population?

In that conference of 5 maps, was that fairly typical for maps?
I generally put it down to coincidence but then the question raised in this thread makes me wonder.

If within a ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Dec 23, 2025 11:54 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: What's your view of evolutionary origins of MA?
Replies: 17
Views: 8361

Re: What's your view of evolutionary origins of MA?

I've heard a few theories over the years.

One is that there's a widely accepted theory that some characteristics provide an advantage as long as it's only a minority or usually around 10%. Being left handed for example provides an advantage in combat because right handed people are familiar with ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Dec 23, 2025 12:07 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Research limitations
Replies: 2
Views: 248

Re: Research limitations


If you were a physicist studying gravity and found out in a new piece of research that gravity works slightly different than we had previously anticipated, your research would be met with curiosity; people would be trying to replicate it, old literature would be getting looked over to analyze why ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Fri Dec 19, 2025 3:28 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Research limitations
Replies: 2
Views: 248

Research limitations

There is a researcher I follow who isn't that controversial but she has openly talked about the challenges conducting research in this field and the risk of base assumptions when those base assumptions are not allowed to be challenged.

There are base assumptions which no university would allow ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Dec 16, 2025 9:37 am
Forum: News
Topic: UK Lawmakers Propose Mandatory On-Device Surveillance and VPN Age Verification
Replies: 8
Views: 209

Re: UK Lawmakers Propose Mandatory On-Device Surveillance and VPN Age Verification

It's obviously nothing to do with child wellfare, it's just the continued trend towards a police state. Everyone will see that, it's really too obvious, but whether anyone will object is another story since most of the country has lost all hope.