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by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Aug 11, 2026 12:58 pm
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 39
Views: 26084

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?


Magnificently said. I'm a pro-C NOMAP. It seems like the most radical backlash on MAPs from antis is aimed at NOMAPs instead of pro-c MAPs. That is to say that if you say you're a MAP who is unwilling ot offend, view cp, etc. they actually seem to get MORE aggressive as if their worldview of all ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Tue Aug 11, 2026 7:50 am
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 39
Views: 26084

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?

I look at this from both sides and can see how both sides to have merit.

From one direction, it is factually true that children are sexual people the same as adults. They have the same sensory organs, touch feels as stimulating and exciting to a child as it does to an adult. Adults go around with ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Mon Aug 10, 2026 2:54 pm
Forum: Pro-MAP Essays and Articles
Topic: It's time to take 'em down...
Replies: 13
Views: 533

Re: It's time to take 'em down...


Working with law enforcement. It this the best you could do Ribbon? :lol:


Obviously he can't be as accomplished as you, who could be, it takes real strength and character to just hang out on forums baiting people each day :lol: You do realise you're punching thin air in a stadium full of people ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Mon Aug 03, 2026 4:07 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Telling your wife and child.
Replies: 14
Views: 1853

Re: Telling your wife and child.


When it comes to temptation I think we are wired not to be attracted to family. Even when family members have been in my AoA I have felt nothing sexual towards them - not just that I didn't fancy them, but felt a bit of the "yuck" that someone might feel about sexual connection with someone who is ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Mon Aug 03, 2026 3:48 pm
Forum: Paraphilia+ Discussion
Topic: Struggling with my necrophilia
Replies: 15
Views: 1841

Re: Struggling with my necrophilia


If you want him to experience happiness then you want him to live; something that he does not necessarily want for others (or at least that would conflict with a fundamental preference for dead bodies). If, for example, you were a gay 'necrophiliac' (i.e. someone who prefers dead bodies as dead ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Aug 02, 2026 8:49 am
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: Devil's advocate
Replies: 5
Views: 6499

Re: Devil's advocate

That's the problem with punishment becomes disproportionate. It's like the three-strikes law in the United States where someone gets a life sentence for a third conviction even if it wouldn't normally lead to a life sentence, in which case if you're going to break the law a third time then it might ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Aug 02, 2026 8:44 am
Forum: Long-Term Projects
Topic: Land project
Replies: 15
Views: 2453

Re: Land project


A pedophile safe haven sounds absolutely fantastic. But I can't help but feel that a pedo town would paint 1 huge target on the settlement and it's people. Plus 1 major issue I would personally struggle with. Moving to this place would be openly admitting you are a pedophile


True......count me ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Aug 02, 2026 8:43 am
Forum: Introductions (Public)
Topic: New P.O.V
Replies: 2
Views: 1656

Re: New P.O.V

Well we don't choose our sexuality but it's good that you are open to facing and understanding yours, that's all any of us can do.
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Aug 02, 2026 8:41 am
Forum: Paraphilia+ Discussion
Topic: Struggling with my necrophilia
Replies: 15
Views: 1841

Re: Struggling with my necrophilia

Really sorry to hear that you're going through this, it must be really hard for you.
I hope you can find others who share this attraction and you're able to support each other. All I can say is that it doesn't make you a bad person in any way, none of us can help our sexualities and what drives our ...
by CantChainTheSpirit
Sun Aug 02, 2026 8:33 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Telling your wife and child.
Replies: 14
Views: 1853

Re: Telling your wife and child.

I think you're worrying about this too much.

I knew I was a pedophile before becoming a dad and when my wife told me she was pregnant I worried how I'd handle it as a pedophile. When we found it we were having a girl my mind started to race about how would I handle it, having my own little girl who ...